Every relationship has its own problems. If they are not properly resolved it can bring an end to the relationship.
Every unsuccessful relationship was as a result of minor issues overlooked by the two individuals in a relationship. Those minor issues you think does not matter are the major things destroying many relationships.
There is no relationship without problems or challenges. The difference is how you handle yours.
The purpose of this article is to reveal to you the 8 things that may likely destroy your relationship if not properly resolved.
It is left for you to look at this 8 things that may likely destroy your relationship and know whether it is affecting your relationship or not.
8 Things that can likely destroy your relationship.
LACK OF COMMUNICATION:
Lack of communication is a very serious problem destroying a lot of relationships.
Communication is very necessary in every relationship.
Why are you afraid to discuss and settle issues affecting your relationship with your partner?.
Any relationship that lacks communication will not last.
LACK OF TRUST:
The area of trust cannot be over emphasized.
You cannot be in a relationship with someone you don’t trust. Trust is a way of building every relationship.
Immediately you stop trusting your partner you have opened a way that will destroy your relationship.
Trusting each other does not mean that you have known everything about your partner, but it is a way of sustaining your relationship.
LACK OF RESPECT TOWARDS EACH OTHER:
Relationship is not meant for kids or teenagers, but for adults who are physically, mentally and emotionally mature.
Therefore: as adults, you ought to respect each other especially each other’s privacy.
As respect is reciprocal, you ought to respect your partner and also receive same (respect) from him/her.
As mature people who are serious in their relationship you ought to be faithful to each other.
Unfaithfulness in a relationship is a sign of unseriousness. Maybe you can both be mere friends, knowing fully that you are not yet ready to move to a committed stage than being with an unfaithful partner.
If you are really serious with your relationship you ought to be faithful to each other.
Being bitter towards your partner always due to what he/she did in the past is a sign of unforgiveness.
Unforgiveness is not going to destroy your relationship only but is capable of affecting your life.
Learn to forgive your partner no matter how big the offence he/she committed may be, as long as you are still interested in the relationship, forgive him/her.
Any relationship built on lies will not last.
Lying to deceive your partner is another major thing that can destroy your relationship.
It is very hard to lie to someone you truly love. Lying to your partner is a sign that shows you don’t love him/her and is capable of destroying your relationship. You ought to tell each other the truth anywhere, anytime.
Being in a relationship with a proud partner who hardly listen to you or admit that he/she is wrong can be so annoying.
Be humble and see your partner as your equal. Forget about what you think you have or who you think you are, your background etc.
Always bear in mind that you are dealing with someone who is likely to be your husband or wife if eventually you succeed in the relationship.
Pride has destroyed a lot of relationships and is likely to destroy yours if you are too proud.
LACK OF TIME AND ATTENTION:
If you don’t give your relationship your time and attention then forget about it because it will surely fail.
Time and attention is needed to build any relationship. You are always busy with your friends, you don’t spend at least a little of your time with your partner to discuss important things about your relationship.
Every relationship with this 8 points stated above will likely not be successful.
- I am Onwe Damian Chukwuemeka, a motivational writer. I believe in writing and inspiration. Keep calm! Go through my site and be inspired.