When it comes to knowing whether a girl likes you or not, it is not as hard as you think. They are some signs you will notice from a woman when she likes you.
The worst thing that can happen to any guy is to assume that a girl likes him and after everything, he was disappointed. It pains so much.
It is often said that guys ought to make the first move like starting up a conversation with a girl, but how do you know she is interested?
Maybe you have been dating a particular girl or have a crush on her, you are now confused because you can’t tell if she likes you. You have been surfing online for signs a girl likes you. Don’t worry, this post is for you.
You see, as a guy, it will be somehow difficult for me to write this post on my own experience only. But I took out time to make some researches. I shall share with you some of the information I gathered from some of my female friends on facebook about what they do when they like a guy.
See Deedee’s Blog for signs its time to ask her to be your girlfriend.
Below are signs a girl likes you but don’t want to show it.
9 Signs a Girl Likes You
Below are some of the information I gathered from some of my female friends on facebook.
According to Victoria Ebubechukwu:
#1. She Responds to You Quickly:
When a woman likes you, she will always respond to your text quickly. For instance, when you are chatting online, you will notice how quickly she responds to your text. If she misses your text or phone call, she will always apologize, stating the reasons for her late reply. Even if she is busy, she will always want to respond to you just to make you happy. It is a clear sign she is interested in you.
#2. She smiles at You always:
When a girl has fallen for you, you will notice a smile on her face anytime she sees you. Your presence makes her happy. As a result of that, she always feels excited anytime she sees you.
As a guy, do you notice your crush smiling at you anytime you look at her? It is a sign that shows she admires you.
When a woman loves you, she smiles at you anytime she sees you.
#3. She laughs at all your jokes:
Another way to figure out if she likes you is when she laughs at all your jokes, whether they are funny for not.
#4. She enjoys Your Company:
Women love spending quality time with a man they like. If she enjoys hanging out with you, she really likes you. In fact, it is a clear sign that she is into you.
How to Tell If A Girl Likes You
#5. She calls You Regularly:
When you notice your girlfriend or female friend calling you always, it is a sign of love. It clearly shows that she thinks about you always. She is missing you and wants to hear your voice.
#6. She blushes:
Some girls are shy in nature, whereas others are not.
When a girl likes you, she feels shy whenever you approach her.
In my conversation with Victoria, I noticed that some (girls) don’t feel shy when their crush approaches them especially the extroverts. But naturally, girls shy away from guys they love especially when they don’t want to show it.
#7. She Pays Attention To You:
When a girl likes you, she gives you her attention. When you are having a conversation with her, she tries her best to be meticulous. She listens and accepts your advice.
#8. She Shows Concern:
I can’t forget this particular point. Another way on how to tell if a girl likes you is the amount of concern she has for you.
When a girl shows concern towards you, she really likes you.
Women are emotional creatures. Am not trying to say that men are not emotional. All am saying is that women are more emotional when it comes to love. They show so much concern for a man they truly love.
#9. She Respects You:
Another way to figure out if she likes you is whether she respects you or not. Love works together with respect. When you love you learn to respect. In other words, if she likes you she will respect you.
3 Ways To Know She Doesn’t Like You
Having discussed how to tell if a girl likes you, it is very important to also know some of the signs she doesn’t like you.
The most painful thing is to love and not be loved, it hurts. As a guy, it is necessary to know whether a girl is interested in you or not in other to stop wasting your time with a woman who doesn’t want you.
Below are the signs she doesn’t like you.
#1. She Ignores You:
When a woman ignores you, it clearly shows she is not interested. You don’t force people to like you. They either accept your proposal or ignore you. So if you notice a girl ignoring or avoiding you, either your text messages or phone call, it shows she doesn’t like you.
#2. You Are Forcing Yourself On Her:
Another way to know if a girl wants you or not is how you feel inside of you. Do you feel like you are just forcing yourself on her?
When you are having a conversation with her, you try all your best to get her attention but to no avail. If yes, then she doesn’t like you.
#3. No Eye Contact With You:
She looks everywhere else except at you.
When you are talking to her, she will either be peeping at her phone or be looking elsewhere. It is a clear sign that she is not interested.
What To Do If A Girl Doesn’t Like You
As I have stated above, it is not advisable to force anyone into your life. When you force people to love you, you will also force them to remain in your life.
Love is not by force. It is something that flows naturally from every man (human-being). You don’t force it to come, neither do you force yourself to express it.
What Should You Do If A Girl Is Not Interested In You?
The only option you have is to move on. Look for another person who will love you, value you and accept you. But if you feel like you can get her, no problem, continue trying.