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Is He/she a fake lover? Signs of fake Love in a relationship

Some loves are fake. Not everyone is lucky enough to identify a fake lover.

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Fake love in a relationship has to do with false feelings.

Your partner claims to love you but it is not true.

Fake lovers tends to be attractive.

They make you feel like you are the only one in their life.

But when hard times comes, they disappear.

If their pretence is not discovered on time, it becomes a problem.

Signs his love is not real?

Fake love in a relationship has to do with false feelings.
If he is emotionally unavailable, his love is not real.

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Signs of fake love in a relationship?

  • Emotional Distance:

One major signs of fake love in a relationship is emotional distance. Your partner does not connect with you emotionally.

They lack feelings for you.

They may be in the relationship because of personal gain.

  • Selfishness:

A fake lover is always selfish.

Love is selfless.

Anyone who claims to love you but is self centered is a fake lover.

True love is built on sacrifices and selflessness.

  • A fake Lover pays little or no attention to your welfare:

Because your partner is faking his/her love, they don’t have concern for you.

When you are sick or in distress, they claim to be busy.

After recovering, they come back to apologize and give their reasons.

They do that to make you believe that they love you, but they don’t. They love you only when things are right. But in hard times, their love vanishes.

  • Uncompromising:

A fake lover is never willing to compromise.

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You either accept his/her opinion or you live it.

They don’t care about how you feel. Their only concern is for their opinion to be taken.

  • Controlling:

A fake partner controls.

They will trick you to accept every of their opinions.

But a good partner does not control.

He/she respects and value their partner.

When their partner says ‘No’ they take it for no. When he/she says ‘Yes’ they take it for yes.

They are not willing to make their partner go against their will, especially when it is risky for them.


Fake love is the direct opposite of true love. It lacks the characteristics of love which are: Kindness, patience, tolerance, etc.

A fake lover can only be identified when you look very closely to his or her actions.

How does he/she treats you in difficult times?

Does he/she remain with you even when you are passing through the struggles of life?

This question will also help you to identify a fake love in a relationship.

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