To make someone fall in love with you requires some strategies. It is not as hard as you think.
Do you agree with me that falling in love is much easier than sustaining a relationship? Love is wide and cannot be controlled.
Before you say “I love you” they must be something in that particular person that attracted you. Love is all about attraction. That is why you must know the difference between love and infatuation before falling for anyone.
Take a look at the characteristics of love here before we proceed to the 8 ways you can make anyone fall for you without even stressing yourself.
8 Simple ways to make someone fall in love with you
To make anyone fall for you, do the followings:
- Get to know him/her better:
Before you can make anyone to fall madly in love with you, you must know at least a little about that person and allow him/her to know you.
Get to know his/her passion. What are the things he/she enjoys? When you have done that, then fix yourself in.
For instance, if he/she likes reading in the library or group discussion, join the group.
Contribute immensely whenever you are discussing a particular topic. He/she will notice you on the process. That is the first stage.
2. Share Your Dreams or Passion Together:
What do I mean by this? Get closer to him/her. As you draw closer, be friendly. On the process, as time goes on, share your dreams with him/her and get to know theirs. Everyone loves someone with great plans. Someone who has the future in mind. You may likely be on the same boat going to the same destination.
Do the followings also:
3. Develop yourself:
People are attracted to those who has something to offer. I am not talking about material things or gifts. I mean those who have discovered the talents in them.
The only way to be irresistible to any man or woman is to develop what you have inside of you.
Do you ever ask yourself – why do almost everyone loves world stars or celebrities?
Assuming they have not discovered themselves, no one could have heard about them, let alone of loving or falling in love with any of them.
You want that girl or guy to fall for you right? Why don’t you develop yourself and see it happening.
Lets take for instance, you are madly in love with a girl or a guy in your church. You are the chorus Leader, and you discovered that he/she loves music, don’t you think it is time to make him/her fall for you by developing yourself to sing better.
Discover and develop those potential in you and attract anyone you love.
Another important point:
4. Take Proper Care of Yourself:
The best way to create a good impression to anyone is to look good.
Your appearance matters a lot when it comes to attraction. If you look dirty or untidy no one will like to approach you.
Do you think falling in love happens through magic? You must take care of yourself first before trying to make anyone fall for you. Wear clean and nice clothes.
There is a saying that goes this way ” The way you dress is the way you will be addressed” It is an open secret.
Keep yourself clean. Apply perfume to smell good, brush your teeth properly to get ride of offensive odour that will drive your crush away.
5. Be Kind, Generous & Jovial:
Kindness attracts people. Generosity sustain them, and when you are jovial, you become irresistible.
These three qualities are very essential in your life. Don’t be someone people cannot approach. Be a helping hand that lifts a broken heart. Try these three qualities-kindness,generosity, and being jovial and you will see people falling in love with you. Treat them with respect.
Still on how to attract your crush.
6. Give him/her your attention and Love:
It takes love to fall deeply in love. You don’t give what you don’t have. Firstly, show him/her love and concern. Give them your attention.
Don’t be carried away by your own desires and pleasures. Extend that love to the person you want to fall for you and live the rest.
7. Don’t be boring:
Many people are so boring when it comes to friendship, relationship or conversation.
Don’t pour all your emotions on someone you want to get attracted to. It may cause them to live.
Be someone who smiles always. Be happy whenever you are with him/her.
8. Never Forget the Power of Gifts:
I have come to discover that gifts draw two individuals together. If you must make anyone fall for you, make their important dates your priority. Their important dates can be their birthday or any other celebration day. Present a gift to him/her as you can afford. Make him/her feel loved and special. It is a sign that shows you love and value them.
It takes patience and consistence to draw a person’s attention to yourself. When you have finally done that, it takes time and effort to make them fall madly in love with you.
They may be other things you can do to make anyone fall for you, but the most important ones are the ones stated above.
According to Wikihow ” Just remember that there is no way to make someone fall in love with you. All you can do is try to create the right conditions and see what happens “
Follow the steps, with patience and consistence you will surely make it.
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- I am Onwe Damian Chukwuemeka, a motivational writer. I believe in writing and inspiration. Keep calm! Go through my site and be inspired.