Being in a bored and unfruitful relationship is worst than not being in any (Relationship) at all. Most of the time, many do complain about the changes they noticed in the life of their partner, either towards them or their relationship. There are chances that he/she has lost interest in the relationship.
When you imagine or see yourself loosing interest in your partner and your relationship or your partner doing same, it may be that the both of you are bored of the relationship.
Going into a relationship with the wrong person is one of the major things that makes the two individuals to loose interest in each other and their relationship.
Any undefined relationship can never be successful or fruitful. Most of the time, two individuals start a relationship without defining it; the purpose of the relationship, which eventually end up in breakup.
We shall consider the most likely reasons why your partner lost interest in your relationship.
REASONS WHY YOUR PARTNER LOST INTEREST IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
The relationship was not properly defined:
Your partner may have had it in mind that the relationship will eventually lead to marriage, but letter discovered that it was just a mere friendship.
It is good and needful to define a relationship before starting it in other to make it clear to your partner on what the relationship is all about.
You don’t give it your time:
Every relationship requires time and patience to develop. Nurturing your relationship requires your effort and that of your partner. When it is left in the hand of one person, there are chances that he/she will loose interest and go.
The relationship is full of abuses:
Verbal or any kind of abuse towards your partner can make him/her loose interest in your relationship. When you are in the habit of insulting or abusing him/her verbally, physically etc. he/she may not continue in the relationship.
The relationship lacks respect:
Respecting each other in a relationship is very crucial. You cannot expect your partner to remain in a relationship he/she is not properly treated.
The relationship is full of quarrels:
When you and your partner always have issues in your relationship, thereby making him/her to be unhappy always, he/she is likely to loose interest in the relationship.
He/she have lost interest in you:
You cannot continue in a relationship with someone you have lost interest in. Most of the time, the two individuals may have lost interest in themselves, either because of the behaviour or changes noticed in each other.
You keep on cheating in the relationship:
For any relationship or even friendship to be successful, the two parties must be faithful to each other. Any relationship built on cheating, if eventually the two parties end up marrying each other, such marriage will not be enjoyable.
You show no concern for him/her:
When you love you show concern. If you don’t show any concern towards your partner, he/she may assume that you are no longer interested in the relationship.
- You may be too possessive: Every individual wants a partner who is not possessive, not a partner who believes in spending. You focus more on material things rather than developing your relationship.
He/she may have found another person:
Most of the time, your partner tends to loose interest in your relationship if he/she have found someone else he/she thinks is better than you.
Every relationship is like a garden, you are the gardener, you need to water it everyday in other to make it work out for you.
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