Have you ever wondered whether you have a true love in your life. A partner or a friend who truly love you as he/she confessed.
To say “I love you” is not enough in any relationship or friendship. True love can be justified by actions and not mere words.
Don’t be deceived or carried away when people profess their love for you until they prove it. That is true love.
The major characteristics of true love is action and not words.
They are things people who genuinely love you will do. They are the things that differentiates true love from pretence or fake love. Many do pretend to love but that is not true love.
Some even make empty promises just to please you or get your attention.
But they are things people who truly love you will do that others who claim to love you cannot.
Do you really want to know the things people who truly love you will do?
I shall point out those things that people who truly love you will do that others cannot do.
True love: 9 Things people who truly love you will do.
1. They will make sacrifices for you:
True love cannot do without sacrifice. Meaning that you cannot claim to love someone without making sacrifices for him/her.
People who truly love you are always ready to give up everything they have just because of you. They are ready to sacrifice their time, resources and even life just because of you. They don’t mind taking any risk at all because of you.
True love still exists. And it revolves around sacrifice.
Anyone who claims to have true love for you but does not make sacrifices for you is not real in his/her confession (I LOVE YOU)
When you love you learn to make sacrifices.
And the more you love the more you make sacrifices for your loved ones.
2. They show concern often:
Showing concern is another characteristics of true love. You cannot love without caring or showing concern for your loved ones.
People who truly love you will check on you always to know your condition.
He/she will check on you to know how you are doing. It is a sign of showing concern.
They will show concern on things that bothers you and also look for a solution to that problem.
3. Encourage you:
People who truly love you will always encourage you. All they want for you is the best and nothing more.
Whenever you feel discouraged or disappointed, they will stand by and encourage you. Whenever you feel like all hope is lost, they give you hope. Even if you fail, they will always make you to know that you can succeed again.
4. They support you:
True love is all about supporting each other in time of need. People who truly love you will support you in every good thing you do.
It may not necessarily be financial support. It may be supporting you by giving you good ideas or counseling in other to help you complete your task.
5. They build you up:
People who truly love you will help in building you up.
They will always bring out the best in you. And also encourage you to be the best of who you are. They will look for a way to make you a better person. Someone they can be very proud of.
They will help you to discover and develop your potentials and become a better person in the society. And also make sure you live a happy life.
6. Make you happy:
No one will ever like to make their loved ones unhappy.
Your happiness is the concern of those who truly love you. They don’t want anything that will bring sorry to your life.
True Love cannot exist without giving.
People who truly love you will give and never expect anything from you in return.
On your birthday or any important days in your life, they will try their best to present a gift to you no matter how little it is.
8. Forgive you when you wrong them:
True Love works together with forgiveness.
No matter how big the offence you committed may be, people who truly love you will forgive you.
A times you may think they are weak not knowing that it is a sign of true love.
9. Pray for you:
People who truly love you will always remember you in their prayers. All they want for you is progress.
Therefore; they will always ask God to grant you success in everything you do. And also protect you.
Love is kind, patient, suffers long, keeps no record of wrongs, etc.
For yo to know those who truly love you, check out the above mentioned signs in them. If you cannot find these signs in him/her, bear it in mind that it is not true love rather, it is fake or pretence.
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