Definitions of love and major types of love we have

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They are numerous definitions of love.

Love can be defined as “A strong feeling of deep affection for somebody or something”

I describe love as “An intense feeling of affection you feel. A burning desire that cannot be easily quenched”.

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When it comes to love , we have numerous definitions of love by different scholars.

Everyone has his/her own definition of love. Not only that, but we also have different types of love.

There is a difference between love and infatuation. Many interchanges these two words “Love and lust”, thinking they are the same.

Infatuation, often called “Love at first sight” varies from love.

According to the English Oxford Living Dictionary, Love means ”
A great interest and pleasure in something”

They are some idiosyncrasy of love. I call it the true description of love. They are the things that truly define affection.

No matter your own definition of what love is all about, never forget that love has some attributes.

Definitions of love

Love is “a deep, strong and uncontrollable feeling of deep affection for somebody or something”

It involves many different feelings but generally, when one loves, one avoids hurting others.

One will not force the other person to do anything he/she does not want to do. Love is a warm affectionate feeling, attachment or likeness for oneself and others.

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3 Major Types of love

I shall emphasize on the 3 major types of love. They are other types of love such as Self-love, comfortable love, complete love etc. But the followings are the 3 major types of love.


picture of definitions of love, types of love.  philia love.

The word “Philia” is a Greek word which means “Fondness”

Philia Love is friendship love. It is the type of affection you express to your friends and loved ones. You can also describe it as ‘brotherly love’.

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This type of love is normally expressed towards people you know. It could be your co-workers, friends, family members or even neighbours. This category of love is based mostly on loyalty, respect, sacrifices etc.

Your friends, family members or even you yourself love and admire those who appropriately admire you back also.


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Eros love also called ‘Romantic Love’ involves intimacy.

It is the category of love between lovers, couple, or people in a romantic relationship.

It is based on sexual desire but does not necessarily mean it is all about sex.

Eros love emanates from the Greek word ” Erotas” which means “Intimate love”. This type of love is associated with intimacy, passion and desire.

In Plato’s description of Eros love, he argued that it is a common desire that strives for transcendental beauty.

He went further to divide it (Eros love) into 2 namely; Vulgar Eros and Divine Eros.

Vulgar Eros according to Plato is “Physical attraction towards the beautiful body for pleasure and reproduction.

Divine Eros means ” Love for supreme beauty”.

The most crucial thing to consider in Eros Love is that it is associated with intimacy.

It is usually based on sexual feelings but does not necessarily involve sex.


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Agape love can also be called “Divine Love” or “Natural Love”

It is not based on physical attraction or whatsoever. It is the natural love divinity has for humanity.

Agape love exists between God and man. Agape love emanates from both Philia and Eros love.

Remember I stated earlier that Eros love does not necessarily involve sex but intimacy. Intimacy means “closeness or friendship.

Therefore, Agape love is the paternal love God has for humanity.

For this purpose, God gave his only begotten son to die for the sins of the whole world. God’s love (Agape love) is natural and unconditional.

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This type of love is wide. It has no boundary irrespective of your background, sex, religion, etc.

Characteristics of Love

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Love has its characteristics. They are the things that truly define love.

Love is Patient:

Love is patient. It is never in a haste to take actions. It is tolerant or accommodating.

Love keeps no record of wrongs:

Love does not bear grudges. It forgives with all her heart.

Love is not envious of others:

Love does not envy. It rejoices when good things happen to others and is sad when others are not happy.

Qualities of Love

Love makes sacrifices:

One major thing about love is that it makes sacrifices. It gives and does not expect anything in return.

Love is not arrogant:

Another quality of love is that it is humble and not proud. It views others higher than himself.

Attributes of Love

Love perseveres:

Love perseveres. It endures difficult situations all the time.

Love is kind:

Kindness cannot do without love. It is compassionate all the time.

It is selfless:

Love does not seek for himself. Other people’s well being is its priority.

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Love works together with trust.

Trust is very crucial in our endeavours. Trust is vital in our relationship with others.

What Love Does

It protects:

Love protects. It takes no delight in other people’s misfortune.

Love is light:

Darkness cannot work with love. Therefore, love is light.

Anywhere it enters darkness vanishes.

Love hopes:

Wherever there is love hope must be there.

Love is peaceful:

Peace abides in love. You cannot cause confusion in the midst of people you love.

Love is all about harmony:

Another characteristic of love is that love is unity and unity is progress. Love cannot exist outside of togetherness.

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It is not easily angered:

Love is slow to anger.

Affection is not easily piqued (upset).

Love is honest:

Honesty is the best policy. Love cannot do without truthfulness.

Anyone that truly love is always a model of rectitude. Love is not characterized by deceits.

It respects:

Respect works with love. When you adore you learn to reverence. It is only irresponsible people that dishonours those they claim to adore.

Love Conceals a secret:

When you love you learn to conceal a secret. It is only a rude person that may not like to keep a secret.

Love is not abusive in nature :

Love is calm and not abusive in nature. It does not force one to go against his or her will. Love is meek and gentle.


Love is the ultimate. Love is substantial. It is a great feeling of affection, passion or desire for something.

It is very vital to know that love and infatuation varies.

They are two different words many people interchange.

Love does not end. Love cannot exist without giving. When you adore you learn to give.

It is possible that true love still exists. It is all about finding the right person.

Love is appreciative. It expresses gratitude at all time. Love is everything. Love endures, Love is prominent.

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