Are there signs your ex will eventually come back? Maybe is about two, three, or five months since you broke up with your ex. Are there chances that he/she will return? Let’s figure out some of the signs that mean an ex is thinking about coming back to you.
Most times, you don’t really need to wait for your ex to come back. If you want to reunite with them, why don’t you make the first move?
He/she may be waiting for you to break the ice before they could return. So, figure out what you can do to make your ex come back quickly. Here is our post on how to get back your ex as soon as possible.
If you don’t seem to be over him/her, check out also, the fastest ways to recover from a breakup.
9 Signs Your Ex Will Eventually Come Back
- They still get in touch with you
- They look for a way to meet you again
- He/she gets drained when you are together
- They still remember your Birthday
- You are still friends on social media
- They still treat you well
- They’re still single by now
- They still have your belongings
- You had a good relationship with them
#1. They still get in touch with you
The first sign your ex will eventually come back is if they still communicate with you. For instance, they still call you to know how you’ve been, where you are, or even to know whether you are safe, anytime they hear a piece of bad news. It is a sign they still love you and will eventually return.
To figure out if your ex still likes you, take notice of how they treat you. How often do they get in touch with you? If they still call you, it is a sign he/she is slowly coming back.
Have they been calling or texting you after the breakup? If “yes” then, it’s a true sign they’re still interested in dating you.
It is also a sign they missed you and regrets dumping you. So, if they start texting or calling you after a long time of no contact, it means they’re thinking about you and will eventually come back.
When a relationship is over, it is assumed that there will be no form of communication that will exist between ex. But if they initiate conversations with you again, it is an indicator that the relationship is not yet over. They still have feelings for you.
Another way your ex can get in touch with you can be online, either on Facebook, Whatsapp, etc. When you come online, they will always text you and respond to your text as soon as possible. It is a sign your ex secretly wants you back.
2. They look for a way to meet you again
Another major sign your ex girlfriend or boyfriend will eventually come back is if they always look for a way to meet you again.
If they ask you questions like ” Where are you now? Are you less busy? Do you mind if we go out on a date? etc.”
These questions are signs they are looking for an opportunity to come back.
They are trying to know if you will accept them again. All they want from you is a second chance.
#3.They get drained when you are together
Another way to figure out whether your ex will eventually come back is the way they react when they see you on the way, or when you are together.
Does he/she frown or feel sad, tired or even try to explain why they broke up with you?
If so, then they regret dumping you, and are likely to come back at the end.
When an ex is not over you, he or she will always feel bad whenever they see you. You can only notice that by the way they respond or act when you are together.
For instance, you may notice a kind of low self-esteem or you will notice that his/her tone is soft (soft speech) when you’ve finally met. It is an indicator that they will later come back. He/she still have feelings for you and regrets dumping you.
They are thinking about how to return in order to avoid being rejected. They simply believe that both of you can fix the relationship again. After all, there is no relationship without crisis. And they believe that every relationship problem has a solution. The sign above clearly shows your ex is coming back very soon.
#4.They still remember your Birthday
If your ex-girlfriend or boyfriend still remembers your birthday, and even wish you a happy birthday, they still love you and wants to reunite with you. It is a sign your ex-girlfriend or boyfriend will eventually come back.
They may even have taken out time to draft a very nice birthday message, waiting for that special day (your birthday).
This indicates that your relationship still has a chance. Perhaps, your ex is trying to make you forget the past so you can both live together again.
All these show that your ex still loves you. They have not left you in the friend zone.
Your ex is still thinking about you and will surely come back. Just exercise a little patience. If you notice any of the signs discussed above, cheer up, your ex is slowly coming back.
#5. You are still friends on social media
If you are still friends with your ex on social media, it’s another sign your ex has not abandoned you. They will eventually come back to you.
They get in touch with you on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, WhatsApp, etc. Not only that, but they still like your posts and even comment on them, most times. They are still chatting or replying your texts.
He/she texts you to know how your day went. They may even say or ask you questions like; longest time dear! Where have you been? I have not been seeing you online? Etc.
All these are signs your ex still loves you and will eventually come back. They may be waiting for you to make the first move.
#6. They still treat you well
If your ex still respects and treats you well even after breaking up with him or her, they still have feelings for you and will later come back.
Although some ex become rude immediately their relationship is over. The next thing they do is to develop hatred for their ex-boyfriend or girlfriend. But if your ex still treats you well, they are still thinking about you and will come back.
#7. They are still single by now
If your ex has moved into a new relationship, it simply means that they are done with you. But if he/she is still single by now, it may be that they can’t just abandon you for another person.
If your relationship was really over, your ex would have moved into a new relationship by now. But as he or she is still single, it means your relationship is not yet over. Your ex will eventually come back after the breakup.
#8. They still have your belongings
If they still have the gifts you bought for them, it is a sign they still like you and wants to reunite with you.
If they still wear the dress you bought for them when you were together, they still have the photographs you snapped together or any other gifts you bought for them, it means they still love you and want to come back to you.
#9. You had a good relationship with them
If your ex brings a flashback of your life with them, it means they still want to come back to you. They’re currently missing you and will eventually come back.
For instance, they still remember the good times you had together by sending you some of the pictures you snapped.
It shows that they’re thinking about you and can’t stop loving you. It is a sign that you and your ex will get back sooner or later.
What if your relationship is over? How do you realize and move on? Below are the signs your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend will never come back.
Signs Your Ex is never coming Back
It is very unfortunate that some ex-boyfriend/girlfriend won’t even think of coming back after a breakup.
To them, the relationship is over. Therefore, there are no two ways about it.
In case you are trying to figure out the signs your ex is never coming back, the following signs will help you figure out if your relationship is over and your ex doesn’t want you anymore.
#1. They don’t care about you anymore
The first sign your ex is not ready to come back is that they don’t care about you anymore. Ever since you broke up with them, they have never called you again nor texted you. It is a sign your relationship is over and your ex isn’t interested in dating you anymore.
When an ex has finally decided to move on, they cease all forms of communication with you. They try their best to distance themselves from you, your friends, and family members.
#2. They have moved into a New Relationship
If your ex has moved into a new relationship, it means they are never coming back to you.
They have started dating someone else and are never ready to return to you. You have no option than to move on with your life.
#3. They returned your belongs
When an ex decides to return everything you bought for them, it is a sign that he or she is never coming back to you. The relationship is over and they’re not ready to come back.
Although, some exes don’t return what you bought for them. Rather, they will stop using them. It clearly shows they’re no longer interested.
#4. They block you on social media
If your ex decides to block or unfriend you on social media, it is a sign they’re done with you. They are not coming back to you.
#5. They say ill things about you
If your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend criticizes or says bad things about you, it shows they’re no longer interested in you. They’re not going to come back.
They publicly criticize or embarrass you just to hurt you.
What may be holding your ex from coming back to you
Your ex may be afraid of being rejected, being criticized, etc. This may be the major thing that has been holding your ex from coming back.
Your ex may be a proud person. He/she is not willing to swallow his/her pride and decide to come back to you, maybe as a result of what people will say.
Here are the signs of pride in a relationship and how to deal with a proud partner.
3. Discouragement from friends
Most times, some ex refuses to come back as a result of the advice they received from their friends. Their friends may tell them not to return in order not to appear as ‘being weak’.
What to consider and do if your Ex refuses to come back
It pains so much when an ex refuses to come back especially if you still have feelings for them.
It reduces one’s self-esteem. In fact, your heart breaks the more you see him/her. But they are certain things you should consider if your ex refuses to return.
#1. Know that you’re not meant to be with them
You are not meant to stay with your ex. One who is meant for you will never abandon you, no matter what.
Remember that love is not by force. You don’t have to force yourself on someone who doesn’t love you anymore. All you have to do is to move on with your life.
When your ex doesn’t want you anymore, don’t kill yourself. Just know that he or she is not the right person for you. They’re not your soulmate.
Therefore, move on with your life and forget him or her. Wait patiently for the right person. He/she will surely come at the appointed time.
#2. Find yourself a new lover
If your ex refuses to return, find for yourself a new boyfriend or girlfriend.
Don’t allow their absence to depress you. He or she is not the only person in the world. Move into a new relationship and live happily with your new partner.
#3. Build Yourself
Be the best of who you are. Don’t be emotionally depressed nor allow your breakup to affect your future or joy.
After all, if your ex was meant for you, he or she would have stayed. But they left because they are not meant for you.
Work on becoming a better person in your society. Never forget to start practicing self-love. Start learning how to love yourself and be happy again.
3 Things You shouldn’t do if your ex refuses to return
Don’t do the followings, if your ex refuses to come back.
#1. Don’t call him or her again
If your ex has concluded that he/she is not going to return, then, its time to stop calling or texting them. Show them that you can live without them. Cheer up and move on with your life!
#2. Don’t block him/her on social media if possible
One major reason why you shouldn’t block your ex on social media is for him/her to see how happy and sound you are without them.
Post nice pictures and if possible tag them. It will only make them regret dumping you. It can even make him or her jealous.
So, don’t block your ex if he or she refuses to come back to you.
#3. Don’t pity yourself
Self-pity or low self-esteem shouldn’t be seen in your life, simply because your ex abandoned you. See yourself like a queen or a king that deserves the honour.
Your ex wasn’t the best for you that is why they left. So, don’t feel ashamed of yourself or depressed. Just be happy and forget your ex.
Signs You and Your Ex are meant to be
How do you know you and your ex are meant to be?
Now you have known the signs your ex will eventually come back, they are signs that shows you and your ex are meant to be.
1. You are still close friends
Although he or she is now your ex, your friendship is still tight. You have broken up with him or her but your friendship has not ended. It clearly shows you are meant to be.
2. You still love each other
Do you still love each other? If ‘YES’, then, you are meant to be. Maybe as friends.
There is no how you will continue loving each other if your relationship or friendship is over. So, if you still have feelings for each other, it means, you are meant to be together.
3. You can’t stop thinking about Him or Her
Your ex is always in your mind. You think about him/her always. It may be a sign that you are meant to be with your ex.
Inside of you, you have these feelings that you cannot do without them (your ex).
You have tried all your best to stop thinking about them but can’t. Maybe you’re meant to be together maybe as friends or lovers.
How to know if your ex is unhappy?
They are many ways you can figure out if your ex is unhappy or not.
Breakups pain as I have stated earlier. Everyone who has experienced it will tell you how tough it is to lose a loved one. Below are some of the signs your ex is unhappy about your breakup with them.
1. He/She does not pick nor return your calls:
If you have ever called your ex after breaking up with him or her and you noticed that he/she refused to pick nor return your calls, it simply means he/she is not happy with you.
When you text them on social media, they don’t reply. It shows they are not happy about how you broke up with them.
2. They stuck you on social media
If after breaking up with your ex, he/she started acting awkwardly, then, they are not happy.
3. Ask their Friends
Another way to know your ex is not happy is to ask his/her friends. They will be in a better position to tell you how your ex feels about you. Whether he/she is comfortable being single or not.
Know that your ex will eventually come back if you start noticing the signs discussed above.
Although it may take time for him/her to return. But how long does it take an ex to come back?
You can’t predict how long an ex will stay before deciding to come back. You are not in their mind. Therefore, they will come back, anytime they wish to return.
Your ex may be having sleepless night because of you. They may even be expecting to see you return. But with time, everything will happen as you expected.
It may be now or later that your ex will come back. It doesn’t matter how long it will take so far as you’re seeing the signs mentioned above. All you need to do is to exercise patience if you still love them. He/she will eventually come back.